Whittling The Future

There is none can define what the future is likely to be, but everyone can make themselves think in an in depth in order to see her/himself in 10 years from now as a hope. I am talking about a dream, a reality nowadays is derived from a dream coming up from the last generations. They saw something in an imagination vividly and they kept a litle faith that it could work out someday.

How many of us are familiar with this question:'How do you see yourself in the next 10 years?' or 'Where do you see your self 10 years from now?'. May be some of us will give more Yeses, and the rest remind silent or No? But to be frank, i don't want to take No for answer. Because that is why we are here for, to learn. Those kinds of questions are used to emerging as final question in international figure choice or in a psycotest conducted to recruit new members/employees.

Back to the topic..

Well.. It is hard to decipher the future, if anything, that will be none coming up at the end, even we cringe to work it out. But all of us are able to imagine, to see the unseen which never comes in a guarranty. As i wrote before, just make a hope. If it is me addressed to the question, i will have my answer this:

'i see myself in 10 years from now, as a father of two, a good husband and in one personal level, i am a family man and an erudite one too.'

Simply, just that. As the only thing i want to have forever in life is a happiness and health in a family, but know this, that doesn't mean i would like to live in poverty, uneducated and unemployed. To me, even i have been pursuing my idea to study abroad and have a good career, i will not leave my family behind. I just want to spread seeds benefiting others. And you know those of things above are easy to be expressed, to be realized will not.

When i get married someday, it means i am in a point to dedicate my life to those i love, one step further. I expect my marriage as my turning point to make my life is back in order, everything i do will start having deeper meaning, then i live better than i am now as a single. I will have one that i've to responsible for. I will make a rigtheous sacrifice, because i love the rigth person. And in the same time i will start making understanding, leave my ego behind and accept her pluses and minuses for granted. Well..

To be erudite here means to be a scholar one, i have been making efforts to reach my goal that is to study abroad someday, specifically in USA (United States of America) the states of Illinois, why? Because some of prominent figures in my country completed their master or doctorate in this state, such as: Sri Mulyani Indrawati. I plan to go after undergraduate in my homecountry first then i will be qualified for applying abroad master program scholarship from my office which usually requires its applicants are from undergraduate. That is why i keep in my mind as a whole of my thought to learn english consistently, to improve it and practice it. Sometimes i am up and down, but that does not mean to stop.

InsyaALLAH.. :)

Now, friends.. if the same question will be addressed to you, what will be your answer? let us share each other.. and thank you for reading this post.